Women can be so mean!

Women can be jerks.  They can say some of the most hurtful things to each other & then wrap it all up in a sugary, fake smile.  And what are women most intimidated by?  Other women.  Now, in a way I can understand some of this hostility when it comes to competition for dates or jobs…but outside of that, I just don’t get it. Why are women at odds with each other; judging, competing, and intimidating each other?

I’m a bit of a plain jane.  I am void of fashion & style.  I’ve never been into the whole hair & make-up thing.  Even when I had a paying job or, before babies, went to bars I cared more about how I felt than how I looked.  Please don’t take my “I don’t care” attitude toward make up & high heels as laziness; it’s just that it’s not important to me & I have a lot of important stuff going on.  I’ve had very long hair for most of my life because I always felt that a pony tail was the easiest thing to do with it.  But, after the birth of my 3rd child, I decided to chop it all off.  I cut it short short–like a boy.  At first I really liked it, but after the post-partum shed was over I started longing for my locks again.  So, I stopped trimming my hair & just let it grow.

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Yup. I’m at that awkward shaggy stage. Nope, it’s not pretty. But unflattering hair is just one of those things that you have have to go through when growing out a pixie cut. And besides, who exactly do I have to impress anyway?

Well, apparently my female “friends”, that’s who. I’ve endured snarky comments about my weight, my clothes, my lack of make-up, and now my hair. I get it ladies!! I’m not a glamorous super model; heck, I’m not even picture perfect. But you know what, despite your ugly remarks thinly veiled by false friendship, I am still confident in myself. You are seeing the me, the real me. Call me ugly if that’s what makes you feel prettier, but at least I have the guts to be real.

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One response to “Women can be so mean!

  1. I liked this blog very much. You are as close to a perfect mother and woman than most which I have met and I admire you for it. Best wishes always. Uldis

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